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A Survival Guide for Adults with ADHD: Working With Your Brain, Not Against It

A Survival Guide for Adults with ADHD: Working With Your Brain, Not Against It

by Andrew Kravig, LMFT. 

If you’re an adult living with ADHD, you’ve probably spent years being told to “just focus! Be more organized,” or “try harder!” Over time, those messages can become internalized, leaving you feeling frustrated, ashamed, or exhausted. This little guide isn’t about fixing you, because you’re not broken. It’s about understanding how your brain works and building systems that can actually support it. It might feel like a small start, but it’s a start!

How Do I Know if I Have Adult ADHD?

How Do I Know if I Have Adult ADHD?

No matter how you feel about your ADHD, learning more about it may help put things in perspective. There is more knowledge and understanding than ever about how ADHD influences our whole wellbeing, including our mental health, relationships, job satisfaction, and more. Many people find comfort in learning the names of their lifetime of experiences. They finally have a key to the map of their nervous system.

Unexpected Signs of Adult ADHD

Unexpected Signs of Adult ADHD

One of the most commonly misunderstood facts about attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is that it can affect anyone at literally any age. Though commonly diagnosed in childhood, many people go through their entire adolescence with ADHD — without realizing it. In fact, the older someone gets, the more difficult it can be to actually pinpoint and diagnose the signs or symptoms.

Adults may be more prone to write off symptoms as something else, like anxiety or stress. Especially if the thoughts, feelings, or struggles have been present their entire lives. But ADHD is far more than just fidgeting your leg or not being able to sit still. There are millions of adults who are living with ADHD but don’t know it. But they don’t have to.

Here are some of the unexpected signs of adult ADHD you may be struggling with buy may completely overlook as ADHD.

Why Can't I Stop Procrastinating?

Why Can't I Stop Procrastinating?

Everyone has a hard time focusing occasionally. There are often legitimate reasons that underlie chronic procrastination.

For many people, it’s easy to chalk up procrastination to laziness. In reality, those who procrastinate often aren’t lazy at all. Instead, there are merely other problems that get in the way of completing tasks in a timely fashion. One way to figure out what causes your procrastination is to pay attention to the thoughts and feelings that come up when you avoid a task.